Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. 2 Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. 3 If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. 4 Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, 5 for each one should carry their own load. Gal. 6:1-5
Believers will have to give an account for their actions someday at the Bema seat judgement. Bible Questions website says this about it;
Believers are judged at the judgment seat of Christ (Romans 14:10–12). We believe that this judgment will probably occur in heaven during the seven-year tribulation on earth. Every believer will give an account of himself before the Lord. This judgment does not determine salvation, which is by faith alone (Ephesians 2:8–9); rather, it determines the rewards believers will receive.
First Corinthians 3:11 pictures Christ as our “foundation,” and the surrounding verses liken the Christian life to building on that foundation. We can build with “gold, silver, costly stones,” or we can build with “wood, hay or straw” (verse 12). What we construct will be tested, as it were, by fire. Our worthless, shallow activity will not survive God’s refining fire; only what is done for God’s glory will last. The judgment seat of Christ will reveal this.
Believers will be rewarded based on their good works in Christ’s service and their faithfulness to the Lord (cf. 1 Corinthians 9:24–27). We will give an account of our actions, inactions, words, thoughts, and motives. Were they truly indicative of our position in Christ? “So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God” (Romans 14:12).
I picture this as one by one being called up before the judge in front of everyone and having God tell all our failures before the throngs yet also tell all our times of faithfulness and somehow, because it's Heaven, I feel like the good will be emphasized more. I watched Survivor Season 49 last night and at the final judgement by those voted off, they got on Sage's case for one-by-one voting them off when they had the majority had she not turned on them. After the winner was announced, and it wasn't her, she had a meltdown because she felt like everyone was mad at her and she had betrayed everyone. The contestants were genuinely sad for her and hugged her and told her all was forgiven, and Jeff Probst, an ordained false believer, gave her some words of encouragement and humanistic platitudes. I suppose that will be a little bit of how it goes for us. The Bible says that He will wipe away all tears from our eyes so I suppose there will be some weeping when our sins, failures, in general how much we forgot that Heaven was our home, not Earth, but then He will comfort us maybe along with fellow saints and we will be restored? I don't know, I'm only guessing.
Paul says that in light of this we should first of all watch our behavior closely. I want to hear him say, "Well done thou good and faithful servant" rather than, "You sure did waste your time on Earth.", don't you? My secret sins that I think no one knows about - News Flash - everyone will. Does that frighten you? It should. Is that enough of a warning to curb your behavior starting today? It should be.
Secondly Paul says that before you start examining everyone else's behavior, make sure your own is in check. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't examine others' behavior because we need to first of all make sure that they aren't abandoning the faith or so close to the edge they could fall off, but secondly make sure that they will receive words of praise at the judgement Seat of Christ. We are to come along side of them and bear their burdens. I can only think that's what Promise Keepers tried to do with men years ago when they formed accountability groups to call each other frequently and check on each other to make sure no sin is taking them down and help them through it.
I tend to forget that my sins will someday be displayed for the world to see and it scares me. Maybe if starting today I live for Him 100%, He will remember my sins no more. It's worth a try.